Wednesday, August 1: This morning, Lisa and I FINALLY get on a plane for our flight home. I doubted it would happen after yesterday’s debacle, but Dr. Jones does manage to succeed. I think some of our group is left behind to wait for later planes. This Al-Ameen Associates program has been very poorly managed overall.
Lisa wants to drop by her old apartment in New Jersey before heading to Pennsylvania, so we decide to rent a car together from New York. I will drop her in New Jersey and then she’ll make her way back to Pennsylvania from there.
It takes us a good long time to make our way out of the city, especially as I don’t know New York at all and I’m driving without any sense of where we’re going. At one point, we see this guy selling hot pretzels and pull up to the curb to buy some.
Finally, we manage to wind our way out of the city and into New Jersey, where we make it to Lisa’s house. She tries to convince me to spend the night, but once I’m on a road trip, I just want to keep driving. At one point, I stop at a rest stop and sleep for about an hour.
Thursday, August 2: I finally arrive home at 2:30 a.m. after a long day and night of travel. Once I get settled in, I will immediately begin to move out of my house to live with two young women, one of whom, Jenn, is in my Master’s program at George Mason and who went on the Mexico Study Abroad trip with me.
When I get home, utterly exhausted, I get this email from R:
If you get this, just let me quickly say– CAN’T WAIT TO SEE YOU.
PLEASE CALL AS SOON AS YOU CAN. WELCOME HOME!!!
I write him back in the morning.
I want desperately to see you as soon as possible. However, I know the weekend is coming up and you will be off-limits. Tonight I guess might be our only possibility. I have to take the rental car out to Dulles, meet Jenn at the house in Arlington to see how much space I have to fill, and then I might very well be free, if you are. I would love to see you, but let me know if or when you can.
I didn’t get home until 2:30 a.m.! I was exhausted and had to stop an hour north of Baltimore to sleep for an hour at a rest area. Before that I just caught myself drifting off and edging off the highway.
Later in the day, I hear back from him.
Me too. It’s worse than you think as I have to go to S.C this weekend to see my sister. But I may have a plan if you’re flexible today/tonight. I’ll call you.
And so begins the continuing saga of a relationship between R and me that lasts until the day after I arrive back from my Singapore and Thailand Study Abroad trip on January 22, 2008.